Be who you are I will do the same. I am not looking for the perfect person as I know all too well they don't exist.Don't ask me to change for you and I won't ask you to change for me,been there done that. I am more interested in what's going on in your mind than what's going on in your pants. Like the song says, "I don't care what you've done, where you've been", it's all water under the bridge,I can forgive;forget,anything.,cheat on me and Im done.There has to be a "connection" in any relationship, if you know what I'm talking about...,enough said. I have a variety of interests from old movies to snuggling in front of the fireplace,nothing like it. I have a boring job here and im taking classes to try to change for the better.I have a new outlook on life now and I know he's out there.