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Online "Dating," Honesty and WHAT are men looking for these days.
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Out of sheer boredom, i recently posted an ad on WWW.DaddyHunt.Com.  I'll Copy and post the majority of the post for you shortly, but what surprised me was the responses i got from a lot of men who read it.  I was inundated with emails telling me what a great point of view i had and that i should try writing for a living.  So, I'm going to try taking their advice.  I am starting out small.  Blogging on small HIV related web-site should be a good place to start.  I've BEEN HIV for longer than I can remember so, it IS, "Writing something of which I know."

What occurred to me was, Men found the experiences about which I wrote to be "Heroic" in come way.  As POZ men, I'm sure you'll read my posting and say to yourself "So what?  We all go through that" but, to a site of, Presumably, Neg guys, my story Stood out. 

I'm Cutting and Pasting the Actual Post so you can read for yourself and decide if my story was noteworthy or if they were just hitting on me.  The Instructions for this Field in the Profile Creation software said This

"CONGRATULATIONS! You are almost done with your profile. Please take a minute to tell other members a few words about yourself and what you are looking for. This is your opportunity to show the world that you are more than just a cock-shot! After this, you will be ready to upload a photo and start connection with thousands of hot guys."

So, Naturally, I set RIGHT To Work.  I started Typing, and THIS Came Out......


WARNING: If you have TEMPORARILY MISPLACED your Sense of HUMOR, Please do us BOTH a Favor and STOP READING NOW.

Thank You for your cooperation in this Matter.

Please Note the Blatant Absence of any Reference to
"Safe Sex Only."  It's Intentional, Purposeful, and Deliberate.  Take the HINT.

NO Apologies, NO Regrets.....

Regret is a Poisonous Luxury,
The Less You Have of it, The BETTER.

Our Lives Aren't defined by our Successes
As much as they are by How we Deal With our failures.

"Bear in mind that the greatest glory of living
lies not in never falling,
but in rising every time you fall." 
Nelson Mandela
(DAMN, he had his SHIT TOGETHER when he said THIS)

A Few Points of Interest about me:
Seven High School Varsity Letters,
National Merit Scholar
Former NCAA Wrestler,

I experimented with Heterosexuality in College
and I, unwittingly, contributed to the Gene Pool.

Five time Cancer Survivor
(My Greatest Victories),

Recovering Alter boy-toy,
Long-Term AIDS Survivor
Recovering Drug Addict
I've been Raped twice,
Been Clean and Sober Since I was 29.
I've had two Strokes and a Heart attack.
Successful Investment Banker.
Comfortably Retired at 35.
Became a Grandfather at 40.

In this Life, there are "Victims"
and there are "Warriors"
I CHOOSE to be a "WARRIOR."
Victims DO NOT Heal.
It's how I CHOOSE to define MYSELF that Matters.
How do YOU define Yourself?

LATELY, i have been realizing just how SHORT life is and
I find, as i grow older, i have less time to waste
on insecure, inconsiderate men
who blame others for the Very Failings
that MOST Plague their OWN Character
YOU KNOW who You Are.....Food For Thought, Huh?

That's my Philosophy on life.


Moving On to the GOOD STUFF,

DEAF GWM 5 11 175 32/32 jeans

OK, I Admit it.
I'm a HUGE Fan of "AGED BEEF."
I also have a Fondness for Bald Heads
(naturally or not) and Body INK.  WOOF


MY Pics ARE New and Accurately portray
how i appear, should you meet me in person
YOURS should TOO

If you don't have the COURTESY of a Public Picture, PLEASE don't hit on me because you like MINE....
Fair IS Fair, Guys.
It's 2008, Learn To WORK a CAMERA.

If you're either too important or too Closeted to put your face on a Website like this one (Locked or UnLocked), we are NOT A MATCH. It's THAT Simple. And DON'T give me this SHIT about being "From A. Different Time" Either.  That was THEN, this is NOW.

SECONDLY, I Missed the HIV Status Field on here...ANYWAY, I am POZ, for those of you who Care.  They Told me I had "GRID" back in 1982.  It APPEARS that I was infected in July of 1976.  I don't hit on men unless Their Profiles have given me a reason to believe they are interested in meeting a POZ man.  Butt, Sometimes, I'm just saying "HI."

Please NOTE: In your profile if you have Used the word "Clean" to imply that you are "HIV Negative" and you contact me, i WILL Carve you a New Asshole.  When you use terms Like "CLEAN" to say you are NEG, it, inversely, makes Poz guys "DIRTY."  Be Offensive to ME, and I can be a HUNDRED Times more offensive Back...TRUST ME!!! Oh, and, the term "D/D Free" is Equally offensive.  TRY showing some consideration towards Others....it will pay dividends

Thirdly, I am a Recovering Drug Addict w/ over a Decade and a half of continuous clean time, living in a program of Recovery. (i GOT the HIV Over 30 Years Ago from Sharing Needles) So I'm NOT interested in spending time with men who abuse recreational drugs and/or alcohol.  No Judgment, Thanx Butt, No Thanx.

I WILL lend you ONE Piece of advice, GLEANED from my Years of Using:

"Drugs are SUPPOSED to ENHANCE Sex,
NOT be THE MAIN EVENT."
You Heard it HERE First......<G>
One would THINK this would be a No-Brainer;
Apparently NOT.

Fourth,
I am Certainly no Sighs Qween; I do not CARE how big your cock is.  Butt, if we meet and my seven incher is BIGGER than your "Eight Inch Cock," it then becomes a Character issue for me and we are DONE.  That's fair, dontchew think? <G>

OK, I'm 45 years old. That's in Actual Years NOT an "Approximation." I'm NOT "Rounding Down."  This Site is SUPPOSED to Celebrate the beauty that IS older men loving younger men. WHY Do some guys STILL think they Need To Lie about their age?  A Shit Load of man on here are LOOKING for the Elusive "LTR." WHY do some men, seems to think it's GOOD to start OUT that "LTR" with a LIE?  I Don't GET it.  Will that make for a good foundation for any subsequent relationship?  Probably NOT.  If a man doesn't Like me because of my age, I have ONE WORD for him, "NEXT!"

I DON'T have Confidence because of how i LOOK,
I Look this way BECAUSE i have Confidence.

I LOVE Younger AND Older men. Am I a "DADDY" or a "Hunter?" 110% Vers, here; when I'm Topping I like to "Make Love" to a Guy (younger OR Older) (Kissing is an ABSOLUTE Must). When I Bottom, I like it to be ALL About pleasing a Dominate Alpha Top. If, you're NOT an Alpha Top, Take it out and Put your Legs UP.  Let a MAN show you how it's DONE.  Point MADE?


When I am in "DADDY Mode" My Motto is Thus:

"Shave, Spank, Lick, Fuck, Repeat as Necessary"

If the above quote made your hole CLENCH & FLUTTER and your dick "Chubby-Up," just a bit, we are PROBABLY a Match.


BTW, Length Doesn't Impress me, Guys,
"GIRTH" Does......<Grin>

AND, THIS IS IMPORTANT....
i LIVE in Paradise WITH my Soul-Mate. I'm NOT looking for Anything More than GREAT Casual Sex, beyond That, sorry, I Cant Help Ya.

I'm A Good Fuck, butt, I'm a GREAT Friend, The Smart men take advantage of having me in their lives as BOTH. How Smart are you?

I'm NO "Body-God" here, I don't expect you to be one either. As "After-School Special" as it Sounds, I'm as interested in what's IN your head as I am in what's IN your PANTS. Don't Get me Wrong, i LOVE a man who knows his way around the gym, butt, can he hold up His End of a Conversation?


NO, my name is NOT "Todd."  "ToddOPoz3465" is an Homage to the title character in one of my Favorite Movies.  If you can tell me the Movie, I'd be Quite Impressed.  HELL, I'm Impressed you READ this Far.  This SURE as HELL Ain't "MANHUNT."  BTW, using GOOGLE is Cheating.  If you DO use Google and STILL can't get the name of the movie, I'm going to GUESS you DIDN'T exactly wear a Pocket Protector in High School.

OK, you GOT This Far...Obviously, my pics suckered you In butt my "Flair" for expressing myself Kept you here.
So, if I said anything that amused you, say "HI."  If not for any other Reason, because I helped you Kill 30 minutes reading my mindless Rants.

namaste

In my opinion, this profile goes ALL OVER THE MAP.  It lacked focus and sounded exactly like what it was/is "The Ramblings of a Horny ADHD Patient."  But Many Men found something in those ramblings that they found attractive.  I'm Hoping it's some small talent for writing that i MAY or MAY NOT possess.  I am certainly open to Feed Back.

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